Brother Sammy
According to Brother Sammy, lovers who are willing to get married must first have sex before deciding to get married.
Speaking in an interview with Okay FM, he argued that having sex before marriage is the only time couples can find out if they are compatible sexually. Not knowing a partner’s sexual preferences before marriage, he said, is a recipe for disaster for the marriage.
“I am not saying people should have sex indiscriminately. But if you don’t have sex with the person before marriage, your marriage will fail.
“Yes, I am a Christian. And that is why I said that this is a difficult thing to say,” he stated.
He believes sexual frustrations are the reason why most people cheat with their exes. He explained that everyone has peculiar sexual desires which need to be satisfied.
“Men of today have their preferences. Women also know what they want. Every woman has a type of penis she likes. Some like it long, while others will say they want an average type or short. So how you know if the gentleman you are courting orgasms quickly or not? If you marry him and he suffers from premature ejaculation, you will run back to your ex. The marriage will never know peace,” he indicated.