The Art of Leadership
One of the first things a leader does is to make friends. A leader must be careful about the friends he makes. These are the friends who will help him. The people who support a leader will become his followers. Are you a person who make friends, or scatters people? Your friendships form a basis for acts of loyalty, support and even sacrifice. You may ask: What is the secret to having genuine friends? Be a genuine friend yourself!
The Bible says:
A man that hath friends must show himself friendly: and there is a friend that sticketh closer than a brother.
Proverbs 18:24
Why A Leader Must Not Make Treacherous Friends
King David wisely refused to accept the killer of Saul as
Jonathan was his (David) friend. Saul was the king who had gone to battle. Even though Saul had hunted David down, several times to kill him, David was not happy with someone who claimed to have killed the king, Saul. David would not tolerate such treachery!
It came even to pass on the third day, that, behold, a man came out of the camp from Saul with his clothes rent, and earth upon his head: and so it was, when he came to David, that he fell to the earth, and did obeisance. And David said unto him, From whence comest thou? And he said unto him, Out of the camp of Israel am I escaped. And David said unto him, How went the matter? I pray thee, tell me. And he answered, That the people are fled from the battle, and many of the people also are fallen and dead; and Saul and Jonathan his son are dead also.
And David said unto the young man that told him, How knowest thou that Saul and Jonathan his son be dead?
And the young man that told him said, As I happened by chance upon mount Gilboa, behold, Saul leaned upon his spear; and, lo, the chariots and horsemen followed hard after him. And when he looked behind him, he saw me, and called unto me. And I answered, Here am I. And he said unto me, Who art thou? And I answered him, I am an Amalekite.
He said unto me again, Stand, I pray thee, upon me, and slay me: for anguish is come upon me, because my life is yet whole in me.
So I stood upon him, and slew him, because I was sure that he could not live after that he was fallen: and I took the crown that was upon his head, and the bracelet that was on his arm, and have brought them hither unto my lord. Then David took hold on his clothes, and rent them; and likewise all the men that were with him: And they mourned, and wept, and fasted until even, for Saul, and for Jonathan his son, and for the people of the LORD, and for the house of Israel; because they were fallen by the sword. And David said unto the young man that told him, Whence art thou? And he answered, I am the son of a stranger, an Amalekite.
AND DAVID SAID UNTO HIM, HOW WAST THOU NOT AFRAID TO STRETCH FORTH THINE HAND TO DESTROY THE LORD’S ANOINTED? AND DAVID CALLED ONE OF THE YOUNG MEN, AND SAID, GO NEAR, AND FALL UPON HIM. AND HE SMOTE HIM THAT HE DIED. And David said unto him, Thy blood be upon thy head; for thy mouth hath testified against thee, saying, I have slain the LORD’S anointed.”
2 Samuel 1:2-16
Jehu Refused To Be Friendly To Jezebel
Jezebel was a treacherous person who had manipulated her husband and the situation to make her husband a murderer. Jehu was not about to make such a treacherous character his friend.
And when Jehu was come to Jezreel, Jezebel heard of it; and she painted her face, and tired her head, and looked out at a window. And as Jehu entered in at the gate, she said, Had Zimri peace, who slew his master? And he lifted up his face to the window, and said, Who is on my side? who? And there looked out to him two or three eunuchs.
And he said, Throw her down. So they threw her down: and some of her blood was sprinkled on the wall, and on the horses: and he trode her under foot.
2 Kings 9:30-33
Never forget that you reap what you sow. If you are a traitor, traitors and rebels will surround you. If you are a loyal person, loyal people will surround you. If you are honest, dishonest people will not flow with you. If you are holy, unholy people will not be at ease to become your friends. As they say, “Birds of a feather flock together.” Welcoming treacherous people never ends up well. Do not accept such people into your camp. Dear leader, be careful not to make treacherous friends.
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By Dag Heward-Mills